My first entry in my blog.
Recently had a break up. Well.... not recently... its been 3 months since the break up. But still haven't got over him. And my condition, well.... cant be sure if its improving or worsening. So, today looked up articles in the net.
Ya.. at previously I used to just laugh at these blogs. I mean I never took these things seriously, like getting suggestions from the net. But in my current position, am ready to do whatever it takes to come out of this mourning.
There were good articles. And I understood some things today. The first and foremost - one has to oneself feel the urge to come out of this mourning. We are not able to get out of this, because we still have 1% hope left within us that everything would once again get back to normal. Once you do realise that fact that it wont, forgetting the person you love becomes a bit easier. And then leave things to TIME.
I know, its very frustrating this wait period, but believe me you just cant do anything to speed up this process. And then some people said, if you really loved that person, then you can never forget that person ever. What you learn with time is to live without that person. With passing time, you get over that person.
One post said, there will be a time, when you will be able to let it go. Well, am still waiting for that time, when I can really let go of him.... Still waiting!
Recently had a break up. Well.... not recently... its been 3 months since the break up. But still haven't got over him. And my condition, well.... cant be sure if its improving or worsening. So, today looked up articles in the net.
Ya.. at previously I used to just laugh at these blogs. I mean I never took these things seriously, like getting suggestions from the net. But in my current position, am ready to do whatever it takes to come out of this mourning.
There were good articles. And I understood some things today. The first and foremost - one has to oneself feel the urge to come out of this mourning. We are not able to get out of this, because we still have 1% hope left within us that everything would once again get back to normal. Once you do realise that fact that it wont, forgetting the person you love becomes a bit easier. And then leave things to TIME.
I know, its very frustrating this wait period, but believe me you just cant do anything to speed up this process. And then some people said, if you really loved that person, then you can never forget that person ever. What you learn with time is to live without that person. With passing time, you get over that person.
One post said, there will be a time, when you will be able to let it go. Well, am still waiting for that time, when I can really let go of him.... Still waiting!
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